Stupid Hurting

Dear Friend,

Hurt.  

It's stupid.  

But it happens to all of us.  Some just hide it better than others.  I hope you know that you don't have to manage your hurt all on your own.  I saw you today.  And when I asked how you were doing, you said fine.  But there was something in your eyes that said you are not.  I asked again. 

"Are you really fine?"

Tears formed at the corners of your eyes and you said that you have your days.  

I have my days too.

I want you to know that right now as I type this, I am praying for you.  I am praying that your heart doesn't have to carry that hurt that is so heavy for much longer.  I'm praying that one day you can let some of it go---maybe to the point that it doesn't weigh you down so much.  

Maybe we can exchange the hurt for something that is lighter. 

Love is lighter.  

And maybe forgiveness too.

But that is hard work.  And if you are not feeling ready or strong enough to trade in your hurt just yet, I understand.  But still I pray for you.  

Love you tons,
Alissa